I've decided not to allow anonymous comments on my blog any more unless I have reason to make an exception. I like open dialogue, and to me "open" means coming out in the open.
If you have made comments here and are seeking after real, open dialogue then I suggest you find someone to talk with about your concerns that you trust and feel comfortable sharing name-to-name or face-to-face with.
I wish you the very best and God's richest blessings!
