Saturday, August 22, 2026

What Would Happen If We Read the Bible Experientially?

 

                                                                            (Jerusalem)

Craig Keener asks this question in his wonderful book Spirit Hermeneutics: Reading Scripture in Light of Pentecost.

    "What would happen if we read 1 Corinthians 14 sympathetically, 

as not merely a corrective for first-century Corinthian Christians 

but also as Paul’s counterappeal that depicted an ideal way of doing church 

(14:5–6, 13–19, 24–33, 39–40) to which we can also aspire? 

I believe that such an approach would challenge 

the practical cessationism of most of our churches 

regarding public exercise of most spiritual gifts (except that of pastor-teacher)."

P. 275

Friday, August 21, 2026

A Wedding Is a Welding



(I re-post this periodically.) 

Marriage is different, in essence, from co-habiting. Marriage requires more than just living together.

What is marriage?

In Matthew 19:1-9 we see large crowds of people coming to Jesus, and Jesus healing them. After this happens “some Pharisees came to test him. They asked, ‘Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?’”

This was one of the most controversial questions of that time. It refers to Deuteronomy 24:1-4, where we read that a husband can divorce his wife if he finds “something indecent about her.” The debate was – what does “something indecent” mean?

There were two schools of thought about that. The school of the rabbi Shammai said, “something indecent” means "adultery." The school of the rabbi Hillel taught that “something indecent” means anything, even something so trivial as burning your husband’s bagel. “So, what do you think about this,” the Pharisees asked Jesus? Jesus’ response is brilliant. Instead of dealing with Deuteronomy 24 he takes them back to Genesis 1 & 2.

"Haven't you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,' and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'? So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." A very cool response by Jesus. Why?

Because Deuteronomy 24:1-4 is about troubleshooting. Genesis 1 & 2 is the heart of the owner’s manual. Yes, there is a time for troubleshooting. But Jesus asks, don’t you remember what "marriage" really is? It’s male and female, united in marriage, becoming one flesh, whom God has “joined together.”

It’s this “joined together” thing that’s especially important. The word means, literally, “welded together.” New Testament scholar R.T. France says, “It would be hard to imagine a more powerful metaphor of permanent attachment.” A wedding is a welding, done by God the Master Welder.

I asked a friend who welds to give me a definition of welding. Welding, he said, is a fabrication process that joins materials, usually metals or thermoplastics, by causing coalescence. “Coalescence” is the process by which two or more droplets of metal form a single droplet and become one continuous solid. No wonder they call it “wedlock!”

Jesus is saying to the Pharisees, “Don’t you remember what God said about a husband and wife? God has weld-locked them together. Don’t let any person try to separate them!"

Instead of saying he’s for or against divorce, Jesus lifts up marriage. The Pharisees seem to have thought that the very legislation about divorce, within the law of Moses, meant that Moses was quite happy for it to take place. Since there's a law to tell you how to do it, that must mean it's OK to do. That would be like seeing a sign that says “In case there’s a fire, take this emergency exit,” and then concluding “It must be OK to start a fire in this building.”

Jesus shows the flaw in their thinking by pointing back to God's original intention. Marriage was meant to be a partnership of one man and one woman... for life. Marriage was not meant to be something that could be split up and reassembled whenever one person wanted to end it.

This summer it was 50 years ago that Linda and I got welded, wed-locked, together. The result is that a lot of her has gotten into me and a lot of me has gotten into her. I am deeply influenced by her, and her by me. God fused us together into “one flesh.” What a great idea! You can’t get that by cohabiting.

I remember the bond.

I remember when God welded us together.


My Favorite Marriage Song

 https://youtu.be/0bJvZmFBxTA?si=jP9y8LhbrGqJ9j8X

Thursday, August 20, 2026

Be Quick to Listen, Be Slow to Text

 


                                                                    (Lake Michigan)

I don't use social media or texting to share negative things, or work out interpersonal conflict. For such things Face-to-Face is best.

When face-to-face, first listen. Understand before opening your mouth. Be a slow cooker, not a microwave.

Henri Nouwen writes:

"When you write a very angry letter to a friend who has hurt you deeply, don't send it! Let the letter sit on your table for a few days and read it over a number of times. Then ask yourself: "Will this letter bring life to me and my friend? Will it bring healing, will it bring a blessing?" You don't have to ignore the fact that you are deeply hurt. You don't have to hide from your friend that you feel offended. But you can respond in a way that makes healing and forgiveness possible and opens the door for new life. Rewrite the letter if you think it does not bring life, and send it with a prayer for your friend." (Bread for the Journey)

Be quick to listen, 
slow to text. 

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MY BOOKS ARE...

Praying: Reflections on 40 Years of Solitary Conversations with God

Leading the Presence-Driven Church

Deconstructing Progressive Christianity

31 Letters to the Church on Discipleship

Encounters with the Holy Spirit

31 Letters to the Church on Praying 

The Great Invasion: Thirty-one Days of Christmas

Thursday, August 13, 2026

Praying Is an Environment

 

                                             (Hagia Sofia, in Istanbul)

My ‘99 Ford van had 170,000 miles on it. It was rusting out, required constant attention and care, had doors that no longer worked, and needed a brake job. Being unsafe to drive, Linda and I wondered how much more money we should pour into this thing. 

We talked together with God about this. 

We prayed. 

It seemed clear we were to get rid of the old van and purchase a reliable car that would last a long time.

 God told us that. God directed us in what to do. 

Praying means thinking and living in the presence of God. 

Praying is a God-soaked environment, a divine culture. 

Praying is a vast space inhabited by God’s presence. 

Praying is a dwelling-with. 

In the praying environment, much is given to me in the much-ness of God with me. 

Thinking and living in a praying-environment brings discernment. Answers to questions like “What should I do?” are found in God’s presence. 

His presence is the place where I am to think and live.

- From my book Praying: Reflections on 40 Years of Solitary Conversations with God.

Wednesday, August 12, 2026

Small Callings

 


(Levi and I made this capybara.)

 Dear Church, 

 As you pray, God will call you to do small things. 

 In the Spring of 1970, I turned my life over to the lordship of Jesus. Within a month, God did one of the greatest things that has ever happened in my life. 

 It occurred on a Sunday. I was living with my parents. Church was over, and we were home. My mother had made one of her delicious, home-made-from-scratch, dinners. Afterwards, as was my custom, I went to our family room, slid into the large La-Z-Boy, and watched football, while falling in and out of sleep. 

 From this position, God spoke to me. He did not say, “John, gird up your loins. I am sending you to preach before tens of thousands.” Instead, he said, “Go back into the kitchen and do the dishes.” 

 I am embarrassed to say that I rarely did the dishes, while living in my parents’ house. My mother always did them. I rarely cleaned up after myself. My mother always made my bed. She washed my clothes. And she made sure the freezer always contained ice cream. I was the recipient of my mother’s servanthood. 

 On that Sunday, this all changed. 

 In my praying times I had been learning to discern the voice of God from other voices. I got out of the La-Z-Boy, went into the kitchen, and announced to my mother, “I am going to do the dishes.” “No, no, Johnny,” she protested. “I’ll do the dishes. You go watch football.” She would never have added, as I might have, “Wake up, get your posterior out of that chair, and do something to help, for heaven’s sake!” 

 My mom got a lot of her self-worth from serving and cleaning and washing and vacuuming and making beds and keeping the house beautiful. I did not want to take that away from her. But God was speaking to me. It was time to step up my game. My mother ended up watching, out of the corner of her eye, perhaps in awe and unbelief, as I washed the dishes. 

That was the day her son became a servant. 

 When you pray, the Holy Spirit will often prompt you to do something. God may instruct you to call someone, or visit a friend, or go someplace, or help a needy person, or serve in your church. The Holy Spirit may lift you out of your somnambulant sluggishness, walk you into the kitchen, and position you before the dirty dishes in the sink. 

As you pray, God will speak to you. He will call you to acts of service and ministry. You must remember that, from God's POV, there's no such thing as a small call. Those who begin with the dishes may inherit the nations. Remember what Jesus once said, in the parable of the bags of gold. ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’ Matthew 25:23 

 I am a dishwasher in my house. When doing dishes, I often remember The Small Call that was gifted to me. As you pray, listen for the voice of God. He will guide your path. 

What seems an insignificant thing, or a tiny calling, is never, in God’s mind, small or insignificant. 

 Love, 

 PJ 

 ATTEND 

 Take care of the small things God has called you to. 


From my book 31 Letters to the Church on Praying.

Tuesday, August 11, 2026

Our 53rd Wedding Anniversary!


                                                                      




(August 11, 1973)

Monday, August 10, 2026

Do People Irritate You?

 


Do other people irritate you?

Do those same people irritate Jesus?

Do you irritate Jesus?

For help, read C. S. Lewis's little essay "The Trouble with X."

Friday, August 07, 2026

Eight Reasons to Believe that God Exists

 


 

                         (Monroe County)

 A long, long time ago Bill Craig (aka William Lane Craig) was one of my campus pastors at Northern Illinois University, where I did my undergraduate degree in philosophy. I wrote a song for Bill and Jan and sang it in their wedding. 

We were always talking about our faith, the existence of God, apologetics, metaethics, philosophical anthropology, and much more. It all got inside me, and has never left, as it has been tended and watered and nurtured over the decades.

Here is Bill's essay in Philosophy Today, where he gives eight reasons to believe God exists ("Does God Exist?"). Read the essay for the reasoning. 

They are:

  1. God is the best explanation for why anything at all exists.
  2. God is the best explanation of the origin of the universe.
  3. God is the best explanation of the applicability of mathematics to the physical world.
  4. God is the best explanation of the fine-tuning of the universe for intelligent life.
  5. God is the best explanation of intentional states of consciousness.
  6. God is the best explanation of objective moral values and duties.
  7. The very possibility of God’s existence implies that God exists.
  8. God can be personally known and experienced.

Thursday, August 06, 2026