Danger Signs for the Not Yet Married
- A general uneasy feeling about the relationship.
- Frequent arguments.
- No arguments.
- Avoiding discussing sensitive subjects because you're afraid of hurting your partner's feelings or starting an argument.
- If you find yourself always doing what your partner wants you to do.
- If you detect serious emotional disturbances.
- If you feel you are staying in the relationship through fear.
- If your partner is constantly complaining about unreal aches or pains,a nd going from doctor to doctor.
- If your partner constantly makes excuses for not finding a job.
- If your partner talks like they are a victim.
- If your partner is overly suspicious, jealous, questions your work all the time, and feels that everyone is against him or her.
- If your partner is a perfectionist and is constantly critical.
- If your partner puts you down, and uses a lot of sarcasm.
- If your parents and other significant people are trongly against your marriage.
- If there is a lack of spiritual harmony.
- If you have few areas of common interest.
- The inability to accept constructive criticism.
- Your partner cannot live without you and would consider taking their life should you break up with them.